A 37 years old man, Adinnu Festus Ikechukwu, who recently came out as bisexual has shared his story of maltreatment, and constant abuse since he admitted to being bisexual.
In an emotional account, Ikechukwu expressed the hardships faced by people like him, stating, that "People like me are not given the platform to express ourselves differently, but today, I stand before you to share my current struggles and challenges."
Ikechukwu claim that the revelation of his true identity to family, friends, and colleagues has resulted in devastating consequences, with him losing everything - his job, his home, and his relationship with family and friends.
He went on to say that the situation has only worsened since he admitted to been bisexual months ago. He recounted several distressing incidents, recounting that there has been incidents of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons been maltreated around the country and fear of being victimized.
These horrifying events highlight the growing danger faced by the LGBTQ+ community.
Addressing misconceptions about bisexuality, Ikechukwu said, "We are not confused, we simply have the amazing capacity to love and be emotionally and sexually attracted to both same and other genders."
He emphasized that sexual orientation is natural and diverse, just like heterosexuality. Unfortunately, many African societies stigmatize discussing sexual orientation, hindering progress and acceptance. Ikechukwu argued that as long as relationships are consensual among adults, sexual orientation does not harm anyone.
Turning to religious justifications for discrimination, Ikechukwu criticized those who selectively quote scripture to oppress others. He pointed out the inconsistency in quoting Leviticus 18:22 while ignoring other outdated rules like not eating shrimp or touching the skin of a dead pig. He believes that religion should not carry undue weight in Nigerian and African societies, and that such dogmatic views hinder progress and contribute to backwardness.
Furthermore, Ikechukwu expressed concerns about the mental health of individuals facing such discrimination, highlighting potential issues like depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and attempts.
He said the threats to his life have forced him to consider leaving Nigeria for his safety, appealing that the alarming reality of violence and persecution against individuals based on their sexual orientation demands attention and action.
Adinnu Festus Ikechukwu's said he hopes that his brave testimony will sheds light on the urgent need for societal acceptance, understanding, and protection of the LGBTQ+ community in Nigeria and beyond.